My pleasure, though of course never a pleasure to know someone is suffering, but what I mean is we are all happy to do what we can to try to help.
Yes, that's exactly it - it can be impossible to know what's going on for hypothyroid women during menopause, totally bewildering & I absolutely empathise with you on that. But you will get through it.
And no, you're not being at all ridiculous not wanting to rock the boat with your doctor. There is an imbalance of power in the doctor-patient relationship that can make things awkward. Your doc will be well meaning & naturally you don't want to lose her support. Not only that, but menopause can give our confidence a good kicking, making it very difficult for us to push against opposition if it arises. Best advice is to try to get your doc to understand exactly how you are feeling so that you can (hopefully) work together to get you much better asap. She would possibly think it too early to test your oestradiol level anyway, as you haven't been on Lenzetto that long, but I was simply thinking if the bloods you'd got lined up did include oestradiol it would at least give a snapshot of how well you are absorbing.
The TSH & iron will be helpful to know, so that's a start & if a T3 test is possible then that will give an indication of how well you are converting Thyroxine - I'm assuming you're not taking T3/NDT?
Some women do find they need an AD for a while & that can be very helpful, but I understand your reluctance to go down that route when you are only just starting to have the chance to find out what HRT can do for you. But if you & your doctor come to the point where you both feel a trial of an AD is worthwhile, then you can try that for a while, either with or without HRT.
We hypothyroid women are at a disadvantage from the outset because our bodies are already somewhat compromised by our thyroid replacement being a rather blunt instrument compared with the way a healthy thyroid fine tunes its activity as the situation demands. And menopause can be one helluva situation
. Hang on in there & let us know any results you feel it might be helpful to share.
Wx
Later edit: I've only just seen from your post on Keep On Swimming's "Help" thread that you have only recently started on thyroid replacement & at a low dose, so please disregard my point earlier about our often needing less replacement as we age. For some reason I'd got the idea you'd been on thyroid meds for some time. Sorry! It will be interesting to see what your TSH is on your current dose of Thyroxine nevertheless. One your thyroid dose is right & your body has recovered from the effects of any deficiency before you started on it, you will be better placed to get the most out of your HRT. It should not be too complicated to balance Thyroxine alone with HRT - it seems to be the small proportion of women who need T3 who can have a harder time finding the right combo.