So eased to see this thread. I started on the gel 9 weeks ago and my experience is quite similar.
I wanted to take it as I felt constantly wired, unable to relax and consequently slept very badly.
I was very wary as I'd tried the patch 3 years before, didn't feel much of an improvement and the progesterone part was horrible.
I started in the lower dose but couldn't believe it when I started to get bad hot flushes, something I've only rarely suffered from. Same with night sweats. I've j creased the dose, reduced it again, but ultimately, I've reached the point 9 weeks later where some days are better and I feel more relaxed and suddenly I'm back to feeling completely wired up. I cannot find any trend at all but I have more bad days than good.
Odly though, I am tolerating the progesterone fine. I did sleep better than in along time the first week of taking it but it then lost its benefits.
I'm very tempted to stop as I don't feel better, just more tired and have put on weight. I'm still so desperate to feel more calm and relaxed, it's so frustrating. I don't know if I have the mental energy to give the patch another try so would love to know if it's made any difference to you.
Hi Letmein,
sorry to hear you're not feeling well. But as you'll see in the forum, there are so many of us in the same situation, so at least you'll have lots of peer support.
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I know many women get on very well with the gel, even I did at the beginning when I only applied 1 pump. Then something happened with my own hormonal levels in the background (felt like oestrogen just crashed to a very low level) and I started having all kinds of new horrible symptoms. As I tried increasing the gel, it no longer worked and I started feeling worse and worse on it. Now I'm on the patch, but I'm afraid its still too early for me to say anything about it, as its been less than a week. My early experience, though, is that it feels more stable and providing better balance, but the coming weeks should tell if this is the case. It's been a rough couple of months, so even a small improvement would make a big difference now.
Perhaps for you giving the patch another try could still make sense? The guidance I've seen is that we should give a regime 3 months time to see if it works. You'd still have couple weeks to go, but if you're not feeling any improvement, then perhaps the gel is not for you. Do you have a chance to discuss with your GP or meno specialist about the situation?
Take care and let us know how you get on! xx