Hi
Sorry late replying. I don't drink wine, I'm sworn off it forever, it's just so high histamine, it's not worth it. My tolerance for it is also totally gone, I just don't like how I feel on wine, it makes me really drunk these days, horribly hungover the next days, just evil stuff. I only really drink Gin and Tonic, which my gynae told me to stick to. I eat a low hist diet as well (well I do most of the time, I do cheat). The problem with histamine is it drives up your estrogen, then your rising estrogen drives up your histamine, it's a horrible loop to get stuck on. Most women figure this out in peri with the estrogen surges, or as they are put on HRT. High histamine can make your periods heavy and painful, really miserable stuff.
Good way to think of it is you have a 'histamine bucket' - if you want to get settled on HRT and navigate the choppy waters of peri / menopause you need to keep your bucket as empty as possible, that way when you 'cheat' and have a glass of wine, or a G&T, or go to a restaurant and eat the wrong thing, and take your HRT, you don't flood your bucket and have a melt down or eruption. There are various schools of thought on histamine elimination dates, personally I think you can't cut major food groups out of your diet forever, but it is good to be strict to start with, and then add things back slowly and see if you react (e.g. I can't really eat curry any more, the spices seem to set me off).
There is also a connection with histamine and anaemia, I've just had an iron infusion (heavy periods caused by the high estrogen are causing the iron loss) and have had a radical improvement in histamine symptoms. I've also now switched off estrogel and utrogestan (was struggling to tolerate the prog, lots of histamine sensitive women also have a hard time with progesterone) and I'm on my first month of Qlaira (contraceptive pill for peri menopause, has natural estrogen and dionegest progesterone, meant to be better tolerated) and seem to be doing OK.
When I first started, I had to come off all hormones, get the histamine very strictly under control, then start again. Now iron is sorted I am feeling radically better. My gynae said that lots of her colleagues are not joining the dots on women our age (either before, or as they start HRT) suddenly complaining of rashes, asthma, hay fever, itching, etc etc etc. She said she thinks it affects 25% of women.
Hope that helps,
Reb
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