Hi all - a newbie here who is about to start taking HRT. I'd really appreciate your feedback on whether you think I'm doing the right thing, as I feel a bit lost with it all.
I'm 42 years old, and at 39 I first started experiencing very bad breast tenderness for 2 weeks before my period. Some hormone tests showed I had low Progesterone/high Estrogen ratio; I didn't do much about it. Then around 18 months ago I started to experience extreme problems which have increased in their frequency and intensity. The main thing I am experiencing is night sweats and rampant insomnia - usually sleep maintenance insomnia, which is very unusual for me (ie I wake up at midnight after 2 hours of sleep unable to sleep again) plus anxiety. It's hard to say which of this trio - night sweats, sleep maintenance insomnia and anxiety is coming first.
All of these symptoms only ever happen at the same time every single month - it used to be 7 days before my period up until 2-3 days into my new cycle, but now it has increased from day 14 onwards until day 2-3. Outside of this time frame I sleep like an absolute log, feel great, with absolutely no problems at all. As you can tell, my periods are still regular - the only change there has been a gradual reduction in cycle length. The fact that I still have regular periods has meant it has been incredibly difficult to get any doctor to take me seriously. I cannot express the negative impact that this cyclical night sweats and insomnia are having on my life - literally two weeks out of every four I'm having to stop my life because it is so bad.
Because no doctors will help me, I paid to see a private hormone doctor who prescribed low dose bio identical progesterone but that didn't help at all. I have just started taking Utrogestan but althugh it has helped with sleep a little, I'm still waking up in the night, still having night sweats and I'm very tired still the next day (I guess this could just be start up side effects).
I'm not feeling certain if it really is the low progesterone that is likely to be causing this, or if it could be caused by low Estrogen or a sudden drop in Estrogen at certain points in my cycle. And I'm wondering whether I should just try adding the lowest dose Estrogen patch and take cyclical full HRT. However because my cycle is still regular no one seems to think Estrogen could be the culprit, but I'm not sure why the Utrogestan isn't really helping..... Does any of this sound familiar? Any thoughts / suggestions? Thanks so much x