Hi. I thought it would be quite rude to let myself in and not say hello
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I’m 51 and have had a fairly rough year all things being equal and this monstrous menopause really hasn’t helped much!
I got so sick of reading how wonderful this period in our lives should be so this site seemed a bit more realistic for me to get info and share ideas maybe. At the very least it might shine a bit of light on the less good days and keep me stumbling along.
I’m generally a fairly cheerful and grounded character but unfortunately my hideous GSM does P me off a fair bit.... wasn’t expecting my genitals to literally disintegrate in front of my very eyes! Definitely struggling with that and my evaporating sex appeal!
It exasperates me to the point of anger that no doctor has actually pointed it out before. Does make you feel a bit foolish. Mind you.... I had explained stabbing genital pains and other things. Seems surrreal that he sent me to a physio for back treatment rather than checking out my vagina!
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I’m embarrassed that during some previous surgery for something unrelated recently..people would have actually seen what is between my legs! Mortifying.
I find the whole thing personally unsettling. I am not a fan of how my genitals make me feel about myself so much but it is what it is. Another 30 years and maybe I shan’t care so much lol.
I’m convinced I shall never let anyone see my nether regions ever again given that I’m not a fan of them myself.
I have just paid to see a urogynaecologist that describes the atrophy as severe. Im like willy wonka without the golden ticket! The GP was never receptive to the idea of any hormonal help saying how natural this all is. Not a surprise that this particular individual owns a penis! Now I’m not being funny but spraying my husband in urine in the bedroom isn’t really natural unless you are a feral cat frankly.
The only good thing is that finally someone has been kind enough to prescribe lotions and potions and patches.
Just this thought is my lifeline atm.
Have a good week ladies and Thankyou for letting me in.