I feel your pain! I had a breast reduction about 8 years ago as my boobs were huge - small frame and back size of 30 and I was totally fed up with them. I was delighted with the result.
But after 3 months on patches they have increased in size, my left boob in particular. I was always very asymmetrical. So my plan is to wait until next year when I have, hopefully, been on the patches for a year and then, if necessary, have another reduction.
My breasts increased massively after I had children and no amount of exercise reduced their size at all. I came to the conclusion that they wouldn't get smaller on their own.
It's depressing but the patches have helped me a lot and after trying the gel and Elleste Solo with no success and 5 years of menopausal symptoms I'm going to put up with the larger boobs for the moment as a trade off!