I checked the last time I posted here and it was just over 3 years ago. I was suffering with anxiety and a variety of symptoms, my GP said blood tests might indicate I was going through 'the change' (yes,he really used that word) and I was expecting my daughter through surrogacy (I have a history of miscarriages and was told by a fertility consultant to expect early menopause).
I went through months of blood tests, an MRI scan, and nerve conduction tests. I argued with my GP to get me tested properly for vitamin, B12, vitamin D and anaemia (B12 was OK, vitamin D low, ferritin and folic acid both just inside lower normal range). As my poor concentration, dodgy balance, unrefreshing sleep and various aches and pains were not going away, I was referred to a rheumatologist who has said I 'might' have fibromyalgia or 'some kind of immune issue, possibly rheumatoid arthritis' (I have stiff, sore hands first thing in the morning). I was prescribed hydroxychloroquine and sent on my way. In my initial consultation, I did ask if the symptoms could be menopause-related, and was told 'probably'. I asked about fatigue and was told it was because I had a young child and to be expected.
So, here we are - I am now 47, and I can't remember when I last had a period (I know, but I blame the brain fog). I definitely haven't had one this year, it may well be near enough a year since the last one.
The meds for joint pain haven't done much, I have brain fog, dry skin and now, distressingly, thinning hair.
I don't know if this is 'just' perimenopause, or the menopause, and if there is anything my GP could do?
