Hi Lucyjo
(I never do unread posts otherwise I'd be here all day. I just go to this board, look for those with no reply or interesting title that I might help with).
Testosterone - don't expect quick results. Gynae I first saw said it would take up to 4-5 months to fully take effect though you should have had a libido effect before then. Check out "Testosterone Here We Go" thread in private Lives
If you're taking utrogestan daily then this can depress libido. I take it on a cycle (like sheila99 said) so I have several weeks of oestrogen only ( as we would do during our fertile lives). Libido is naturally at its highest around ovulation when oestrogen is at its highest (massive peak), testosterone increases and progesterone is almost absent.
I agree the VA products could be causing soreness unless your VA is sitll not controlled. Also it depends how long you have been using all of this. With severe VA it can take months of treatment. Check out Maryjane's old posts if you can find them or Dancinggirl's "Burning Club" thread in private Lives.
Hope things improve for you soon
Hurdity x