Add me as another early menopausee (at 42) who's been refused estrogen testing. My OBGYN just this morning, via telephone appointment, again refused to test to check where levels are, and said to go by symptoms only. This was harder initally, because my symptoms weren't the classic hot flushes. But over time, and it did take time, I noticed my sore coccyx find go away, my foot pain ease, etc.