Yes, he's read the info and forgotten it. Pre-meno may be having an impact but is not the main cause of the current situation.
It's advice I need on a strange situation I find myself in.
We moved house last year from a property he liked but I didn't - it was rural without much in the way of work for me but great for him (he was the breadwinner and still is). We moved to a bigger town nearer my family. All fine until about 3 months ago when he said he 'hated the place and wish he'd never moved' and blamed me for it. He then told his mum this and she's offered to 'give him' some land on her property so he can build a house on it for us. I like his mum and sister and their family (they live in the same house) but I wouldn't want to be living that close to them and seeing them all the time. I need and like my own space and am concerned the relationship would crack. She won't just give us the land to sell or sell it herself and give us the money, she wants us to sell everything and build a house on it and stay there. Trouble is we can't afford to do this really - it won't be a dream home just what we can afford (smaller and within view of her house). I don't like the area at all, it's very rural, limited work and public transport and you have to drive everywhere (whereas we don't here). We'll have a quarter of our income as my husband is getting his pension next year. I have awful anxiety about driving and he isn't sympathetic and neither are his family. The stress of it is making my gastritis and mental health worse.
I thought our relationship was improving recently as he was being so nice to me but as soon as I said I didn't want to move this stopped and I am now getting the silent treatment (I've had this before when I've done something wrong or something he doesn't like). His mum and sister were not so friendly with me at our last visit recently so I know I'm the bad guy.
I've toyed with the idea of moving just to stop the sulks and silent treatment but I just don't want to live that close to my in-laws, living in a caravan for months while the property I don't want to live in is being built. I fear my marriage will disintegrate completely.
Sorry to ramble.
Wx