Hi sammiejane - not sure what suddenly brought that comment on from a post I made two weeks ago! As you know we are all here to try to help you but although theoretically you can post anything anywhere - the forum works best for everyone if we try to keep mostly to topic and not ask the same question on multiple threads, especially if the topic is unrelated to what you are asking - not least because it is very time-consuming for those of us who come here to help - to go to a thread and find the same question and also forget whether or where we have posted a reply to see what we've said. It doesn't help us to help you and the original poster also gets confused. This has been politely pointed out to you by several members not just me - mainly those who are trying to help you because we do care about you, but we have limited time and we also care about everyone else too!
In terms of hair-loss - I think this has been covered extensively. We either give our own experiences or the general principles from studies etc relating to oestrogen and its effects on hair. Of course we cannot say how one individual will react and also because as you will know by now the issue of hair growth loss is extremely complex.
I think you need to try to be calm and follow the advice of your doctors and try out the regimes they are advising for the trial period they recommend and keep a diary about what happens - to your mood, and other symptoms as well as your hair. Maybe also think about stopping smoking as this has been raised on another thread?
All the best
Hurdity x