Hi Winnie and so sorry about your distressing problem. Maybe local hrt is needed. I know you don't want hrt and I understand as I came off systemic hrt after problems. I am 61 and had urine pressure problems, though not leaking, and like loads of ladies on here I use ovestin, or there is vagifem. They are cream or pessary applied vaginally and without it my life would be awful. Try your gp as you can't suffer like this. X