It is really early days Battyboo and unfortunately it can get a little worse before it gets better when introducing hrt. The minimum length of time for it to settle is 3 months so 3 weeks is a blink of an eye. It took a total of 7 months on gel and utrogestan for me to get back to feeling like me but I had mega problems ongoing for a very long time. I think the longer they go on the longer they take to settle.
You body is getting used to having something back which it hasn't had in any great amount for a while and it can react to that.
Don't be disappointed, just persevere. It may be that 2 pumps is not enough for you. I was started on 2 but ended up on 4 pumps because my symptoms didn't come under control but you need to introduce things slowly rather than jump up straight away otherwise the body cant adjust that quickly.
Work away on 2 pumps for the first month and then if the insomnia or other symptoms are not shifting, increase by half a pump for 2 weeks of the second month and then another half a pump in the 3rd/4th week of the second month and you will be up to 3 pumps. By the end of the 3rd month you may need to have increased again but see how you go but I have to tell you hrt does not work quickly like other "medications" - it can be a real slow burn. It really is trial and error I'm afraid and a huge dollop of patience
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The next thing is to see how you go on your cycles of utrogestan as that can be the problem part of hrt but you haven't started yet, so it cant be that affecting the mood, that must be being caused partly by lack of oestrogen. You mentioned UTI - vaginal atrophy can masquerade as UTI symptoms when in fact it is not infection at all just lack of oestrogen causing dryness and soreness etc down below. You would need a topical oestrogen to treat that which is applied directly to the area but your GP should check it's not an actual UTI. Have a look at some of the theads on Vaginal atrophy. I don't have it but plenty of ladies suffer really badly and it needs nipping in the bud quickly as it is more difficult to treat the longer it goes on.
Tell us a bit more about yourself, where you are in the meno journey? x