Hi Namaste
It's a really common problem and one many of us struggle with while trying to find a balance. I have just trialled 2 months on dydrogesterone (Femoston 1/10) as I was struggling with utrogestan.I would say there were some positives and some negatives.
The positives were the dydrogesterone didn't affect my mood as much as the utrogestan, or quash my libido at all actually.
The negatives were I felt drugged up (sedated) the whole time I was on it. As I have to take it longer than utrogestan 12 days as opposed to 7, and then factor in the withdrawals I'm not sure it was worth it. The jury's still out on that one (currently withdrawing from month 2).
The problem is (I was advised by my specialist) my receptors are particularly sensitive. I suspect all of us having these issues are in the same boat. It's about time we had more options, this is something that's been said many times before but there's no sign of any progress yet! That said dydrogesterone may work for you, it's worth a try. Sorry I can't be of more help x