Thank you Lamzalover.
I did sleep albeit broken sleep.
He was brighter but then had a doom and gloom consultant so he's down again now. The consultant was on about necrosis of the nose which can happen when you clamp arteries, so worrying. We'll get there I hope.
Surely in this day and age they can sort this out but I'm afraid I have so little confidence and hope it makes every journey difficult xx
As I sat in the hospital last night I felt very very lonely. i have a few close friends but no one I would have asked to be with me, as to them it was ‘just a nose bleed'. My lovely daughter has 2 little ones, my sister has her children so they couldn't come. My husband's family offered but I was so hurt recently by an incident, I don't feel the same way now.
I felt I had no one, in the end my son in law to be came down. I didn't realise how much I need my husband by my side. It's weird as all the number of times I've said to him ‘ one day you'll have a problem then you'll know what it's like' kind of conversation. Then this happens. We are both seeing it from the other persons shoes which will help us recover as a couple but I still wish with all my heart this had never happened x the outcome seems so uncertain. Plus when he went into a&E when all this began last Friday, there was some dripping blood, they overreacted I think, inserted a massive pack without anaesthetic as if he was bleeding to death and he was in agony, he is now so fearful of this happening again. Do you think I should let the consultant know or will I just make waves ?