Hi Carol7
Sorry to hear about your bleeding and sensitivity to progesterone. Your dilemma is the same as many of us encounter when we become post-menopausal. Either limit the progesterone exposure by staying with a cycle but having to put up with a bleed, or taking the progestogen continuously in order eventually to become bleed-free, but with all the side effects that entails. There is no easy answer I'm afraid and it has to be the least worst option if you see what I mean!
The first thing is to have an idea whether you think you might be post-menopausal yet? So - what were your periods doing ( in terms of cycle frequency) in the months or years leading up to your starting HRT, and how long have you been taking it?
If you are still peri-menopausal - which is possible although less likely - then a cycle is advised which is supposedly meant to lead to a predictable bleed - not happening in your case.
One option is the Mirena coil - which although some of the progestogen is absorbed systemically - should eventually lead to no bleeding ( after the settling in of a few weeks or months). You would then add oestrogen as tablet, patch or gel - and perhaps a good opportunity to change to transdermal oestrogen as you aproach 60?
Another option is to try changing the progestogen to utrogestan - which is bio-identical progesterone (ie same as produced by our bodies) - first of all cyclically - although this does have a sedative effect and is more effective used vaginally in some women. You would then change your oestrogen to patch or gel ideally.
If you feel you are post-menopausal and you are bleeding excessively on this preparation ( and bleeding 3 weeks out of 4 is not normal on cyclical HRT if you are post-meno) - then I would mention this to the doc re checking you over given your age. For example you might have a fibroid or polyp which can cause extra bleeding - so a scan and if necessary hysteroscopy would be in order, to take a look.
I would suggest you push for this whether or not you change your HRT and actually see if you can get a referral before you do so. If you do have a scan it's best to have it just after your withdrawal bleed has finished - following the end of the progestogen phase of the cycle.
If you are still peri-menopausal then all of this could just be due to your own hormones adding to the mix - and bad luck on your part for this to be still happening at 57!
Hope this helps and let us know how you get on with the doc!
Hurdity x