I think there are a number of factors in play. These are just some random thoughts and not in any particular order I think...Firstly I have never encountered anyone who has talked about hrt in general openly
but then I have only one close friend of the same age and she doesn't take anything nor have we discussed it.
Secondly I think women hear about treatments in the press and are possibly a little more clued up about what they can have but are let down badly by GP's who are definitely not clued up! They just don't think any of the things we can complain about would be meno and they are just too free in saying "it's all in your head have some AD's". Some women know they have meno problems which can be sorted, these problems vary on a scale of mild to totally debilitating and life changing, but they get the wrong treatment given to them which causes other problems so they give up. I would say those that give up are the ones with mild to medium issues. Personally my meno problems are on the "off the scale" list and there is no way I would give up my hrt in a million years to go back to any of them and I know they come back cos I was off my hrt for a while. So regardless of any issues I had if I was given the wrong treatment (and I have been). A bleed or "user friendly" treatment is nothing compared to feeling like I have been. To be honest I would end up dead without it, it's that bad.
Thirdly, athough there would be no way to test or prove this but it is my hunch based on a number of things, that I think more women are suffering from "difficult" meno than in the past (although like my husband says they used to put women in assylums with the "vapours" or say they were "suffering with nerves", so it has always been that some women suffer more than others!). I believe that modern living generally, polution, the increase of plastics and chemicals in our water, homones and antibiotics given to our meat to keep it healthy have caused differences and fluctuations in human hormone levels (and studies have shown in the animal kingdom too) that didnt exist before without the general stress of modern living and the fact that what is expected of older women today in the world we live in is very different to 25 years ago. We work longer and are not expected to turn into and behave like "grannies" of 30 years ago.
I think the meno issues and solutions and the talking about it all is in a weird period of "just coming out into the open, but nowhere near there yet". In about 5-10 years time I think the whole thing will fall into place with regard to treaments and that it is an "out in the open" conversation. I think we are living through the "twilight years of the menopause" - but that doesnt help anyone living through it now right?
Having read this back - I've lost track of what I was trying to get across
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Hope it makes sense to someone!!!