Hi Debra66
Yeah you are considered post meno when you haven't had a period for 12 months.
You're hrt is early days yet, and you've got to give it time to work, as for your anxiety, I take an antihistamine every now and again, it really helps me, that's because I refuse to take antidepressants because of a couple of bad experiences with them, but you could give them a try if your doc says it's ok.
All your symptoms are typical of meno, you should try and stick to the hrt for about 3/6months, to see if it suites you, if not, try another one.
Are you taking the Utrogestan orally,? I only ask, because some ladies can't tolarate it that way, so they use it vaginally, less side effects.
Keep posting, have a rant, or just need support, someone's always on to offer some help.
You will start to feel better, you just have to keep slogging on.
Good luck,
Xx