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CLKD

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #30 on: March 01, 2019, 10:05:03 AM »

She can drop that idea.   She won't be well enough to take on such a stressful job.

What you hear about her and what is actually happening on a daily basis might well be different.  She may be trying to 'get back' at her parents by throwing herself out of the car, something that happened years ago which has festered.  What that might achieve she will know but it never worked for me. 

I simply got a smack from my Dad when I threatened, aged 18, to jump out of a bedroom window.  He didn't smack me hard but 'had to do this to keep your mother quiet' ........ she had been getting on my nerves that day and hadn't been listening to my worries.  I was trying to put my point over .......... she ran for Dad, the last thing I wanted but it was her way of maintaining control over me.  Hindsight in the last 10 years has shown me why !!

As we don't know what was going on behind closed doors whilst she was growing up, issues around how parents, parent, can become complicated.



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jaypo

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #31 on: January 16, 2020, 12:14:55 PM »

Sad day today,funeral of our beloved niece,who successfully ended her life on Christmas Eve,rest in peace Vee 💖
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CLKD

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #32 on: January 16, 2020, 01:00:03 PM »

I was thinking of you all whilst trimming back a clematis in warm sunshine earlier  :hug:
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #33 on: January 16, 2020, 01:06:15 PM »

Thank you clkd  :)
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CLKD

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #34 on: January 16, 2020, 02:51:47 PM »

Light a candle in your heart.  She is now at peace.  This is a wicked illness as it takes away all sense of reason  :-\
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #35 on: January 16, 2020, 02:55:21 PM »

We have,hope she's in a better place now
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #36 on: January 17, 2020, 09:58:31 AM »

So sorry to hear this very sad news jaypo  :'(

Thinking of you  :hug:

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jaypo

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #37 on: January 17, 2020, 10:12:24 AM »

Thank you hurdity  :) all very sad that at 18 years of age you can't see a future  :'(
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #38 on: January 17, 2020, 03:23:11 PM »

So very sorry to read this Jaypo, she is at peace now. Thinking of you & your family.
Love Cazikins xx
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #39 on: January 17, 2020, 03:57:28 PM »

Thank you Cazikins xx
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #40 on: January 17, 2020, 06:51:07 PM »

So sorry to read this jaypo it's just so very very sad.

Thinking of you

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jaypo

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #41 on: January 17, 2020, 07:35:29 PM »

Thank you Lanza,very kind of you,she loved animals and wanted so much to be a vet,thing is,she was a clever girl & could've been one easily,life was just too much for her xx
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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #42 on: January 17, 2020, 11:44:50 PM »

I'm so sorry. It seems so unfair they couldn't find a way to help her.
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jaypo

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Re: Anorexia 4 Jaypoo
« Reply #43 on: January 18, 2020, 10:05:01 AM »

Thank you sheila,they tried,in fact she was in a private specialist (apparently) hospital for eating disorders but nope,she had been determined to do this for a long time
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