Sjpercy.
I was under the gynae oncology team. (Suspected OC) which turned out to be benign) at my local hospital and they were realy not great regarding either surgical meno or HRT. To say the very least. In fact they were useless!! The final one I saw within the clinic was the one with hrt knowledge, it took 9 months to get to her and I think they only passed me to her as they were at a loss what to do. . But they dont have a meno clinic and cant offer a lot so that's why I've been discharged from there and referred on. The clinic at c and w is run by nick panay but I cant say anything about it yet as I havent seen them yet. I think other ladies here have attended.
Have you asked at your surgery if there is a doc or practice nurse with a menopause snd/or HRT "interest". If there isnt then ask to be referred to your nearest meno clinic. There are NHS meno clinics available although it seems like a bit of a postcode lottery but if like me, there isnt one locally and you are prepared to travel I think you should be given that chance to do so. I'm keeping fingers crossed as although I've been referred I think they dont have to automatically accept the referral. But I will push for an alternative if not. From experiences on here it would seem some GPS are knowledgeable and if you have no issues re absorption etc then a good gp can handle "tweaking" doses and regimes which everyone seems to need at least at first but I too have had the shoulder shrugging. Things are not going as expected and they dont know what to do with me and in that instance I think it's more than reasonable to expect to be referred to someone with more specialized knowledge.
I dont realy understand the FSH reading either. with well below post meno eastrogen in blood very low FSH seems incongruous to me. I only noticed it when I got home or I wouldve asked. It's important to say I'm post meno surgically and I'm not sure if you are peri or post. My ovaries are gone but yours could still be "kicking off".
Regarding patches. When I first started I used femseven sequi patches which was strange as a first choice post surgical meno, normally a conti is given. But they were not a high enough dose at 50. So whilst it would seem I didnt absorb them I'm not sure as the dose was nowhere near high enough for me and they realy didnt stick well but went out of manufacture before I had time to try a higher dose they were removed from market for adhesive" issues so if they come back and stick better I wouldnt mind trying them at a higher dose as I got on well with the progesterone in them, and I dont with utrogestan.
So I've only tried the femseven at a low dose and high dose eastrogel and estradot. It would be good to get some reviews from those ladies on here who have tried a wider variety of patches, and some have tried lots, ladies dont always switch because of non absorption there can be many reasons but it would be interesting to hear from those who have had absorption issues and found one patch better than the other.
Of course, everyone is different and even docs dont fully understand why "one size doesnt fit all" but at the risk of carping on about it, non absorption is a specific issue, a real spanner in the works and tknowledge from the meducal profession seems wanting. I wish someone would do a trial. I'd be there like a shot!!!
Not sure I've answered your questions but I've tried, even if I do ramble on a bit
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