Hi Hurdity,
I am 51 and suffered with night sweats for about 3 and a few mood swings. Within the last year the moods swings escalated (felt low and lots of tears) as did the night sweats and then came the hot flushes hence my trip to the doctors.
I have had the mirena coli for 6 years so didn't have a cycle hence the Estelle Solo as I have progestogen in the coil.
FYI before HRT when I was just having the mood issues the doctor had put me on anti depressants for the mood swings which I took for a year, coming off the anti depressant I experiences discontinuation syndrome - tinnitus / head buzzing and dizziness - I would not recommend anti depressants for menopausal symptoms and have read a lot about doctors prescribing these when really they should be looking at HRT! had I known the HRT would have resolved my symptoms I would have chose HRT over the anti depressants.