Hi Emmajane33
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Sorry to hear about your ongoing symptoms and problems with your doc.
Yes you should insist on a referral - it is your right to see someone who knows what they are talking about re menopausal symptoms and appropriate treatment.
Unfortunately you are a special case in that you had a surgical menopause and perhaps were still having regular periods leading up to your op? The shock to your system will have been greater the earlier in peri-menopause you were ie when your natural hormone levels were still high.
From what I've read on here it does take a while to settle on the right dose of the right preparation and some women in surgical menopause take much higher doses than this. Your doc is quite wrong not to measure your oestrogen levels - yours is one of the circumstances in which it is advised because you have no idea what they are. Although 2 mg is ostensibly a high dose - the actual levels in your body depend on how much you absorb from the tablet following digestion and metabolism through the liver. I would suggest you might be better off using a transdermal oestrogen ie patch or gel and you would be able to increase the dose until you arrived at the right level for you.
In the absence of flushes and sweats in can be difficult to decide what the right level in but often mood can be a good indicator too.
The other thing is that some women also need testosterone following BSO - and you would usually need to see a specialist for this especially if your doc is not playing ball, as it is prescribed off licence. A good indicator that you are low in this is libido ( although this can also be lowered throught taking ADs and indeed tablet HRT can also lower libido compared to transdermal).
So - if your doc cannot help with this then do go back and ask for a referral - or at least another doc in the practice if you can find one who is knowledgeable about HRT?
At the same time do continue to seek help and an appropriate diagosis for your other symptoms which you can also discuss at a menopause clinic when you get referred. Depending on where you live there are not that many around but you can be referred to the neraest (NHS) one if there is not one in your area.
Hope this helps a little.
Hurdity x