Thanks Daisydot. I've always said to my daughter and daughter in law , women are amazing, strong, and brave, so I try to be a good role model. I'm not a particularly brave person really, when the surgeon told me I would need a bag, I was horrified, and then just thought, well it's not cancer, so I'll deal with it. We lost a little girl to cancer in 1989, she was our second child, so I think of her, and I just get on with it. I have a terrible fear of cancer, as you can imagine.It gives me strength thinking of her, and what she went through. But having said that, it has been a tough year. This forum has also given me much comfort, because atrophy is just so very distressing, and I get lovely support from the amazing ladies on here . 😊