I think it's an absolute disgrace that women are so ill informed,about what could potentially happen to them at this horrific stage of life,all we are led to believe is that your periods stop,and you get hot flushes.nobody mentions va or the anxiety depression and mood swings so many suffer with,these symptoms are the ones that can take lives,i very nearly have my life up a lot of times in the last 18 months. The very worse thing is I'm not me anymore,the old me who used to love a good laugh has gone,I can't laugh anymore,I fear that person has gone for good,it's the strangest feeling,like someone else is living in my body,I don't like this new person,who has no sense of humour,and feels like I am just drifting from one day to the next,stumbling through life like it's not reality,like someone turned my lights off,blew out the flame of my life. Why the ...k didn't anyone warn us about this,why is it we have to find out from our own resources,when we are so desperate that we think it's better to just end it all,because we feel so ill and scared,that we feel like we are dying anyway, and nobody at the gp surgery tells you,they just give you ads and refer you to the psychiatric team,who then pump you with more drugs,some of them nasty nasty drugs,why the hell did nobody say anything,why didn't the gps read the signs. It's time this changed,lives need to be saved now xx