Ah, that's interesting Wilks! I found Fluoxetine too activating at 20mg, but could tolerate 10mg which I had as a liquid.
The venlafaxine is a bit known for constipation I know, so maybe that's why it affected your tummy.
I'm so sorry to hear you're spiralling, Lisa - please know that we're here for you! Sending hugs - just hang on in there until you see your new Consultant at the menopause clinic! Not long now. xxxx