Hi Deborahlouise
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Sorry to hear you didn't get on with the Evorel conti. In fact this type of HRT - if it was the same type of patches every day - is designed for post-menoipausal women who haven't had a natural period for 12 months. You should have been given a sequential HRT for peri-menopausal women - which will give you a period or withdrawal bleed every month. Some women don't get on with the synthetic progestogens in some HRT types so the advantage of going onto sequential HRT as you should be, is that you will hopefully only get the normal pmt for part of the month and reap the benefits for the rest of the month!
Have your periods been irregular for 4 years? if so then maybe the gaps between them will start to get much longer soon, as your ovaries being to ovulate only sporadically. At your age - it sounds like you may well be heading for an early-ish menopause and it is generally advised to take HRT at least until the natural age of menopause of 51/52 to protect heart and bones amongst other things.
If you want to use patches then you could try the other combi one - Femseven - but be sure to ask for sequi - although some women have problems with getting these to stay stuck for the whole week. Alternatively if you don't mind a pill then Femoston (1/10 to start with and then 2/10 if you need a higher dose).
Finally if you want a really gentle type with "natural" ie body-identical progesterone, you could try oestrogen patches ( eg Evorel or Estradot - the latter are tiny), along with micronised progesterone (brand name "Utrogestan) for 10-12 days per month, although some find this too sedating.
All the different types of HRT preparations are listed under "Treatments" on the menu.
I have been using HRT patches for most of the last 11 years, along with some form of progesterone and I am now mid 60's.
Re your weight gain/tiredness - be sure to mention this to the doctor so that they can carry out blood tests to check thyroid functions and any iron/vitamin deficiencies - they should do this as a matter of course at this point - if you haven't had any such tests recently. Otherwise, in order to keep weight gain at bay you need to eat less ( or rather less of high carb/high fat foods) and exercise more in order to stay the same weight, as you head for menopause and beyond - so maybe look at your diet/fitness regime ( walking is good!) and make suitable changes if necessary!
Hope this helps
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