Thanks dolly, the radiographer said that I'm still ovulating, as I did this month but not sure if it's every month, my lining was 14 mm on day 18 of my cycle, which I've read it's still classed as normal, so mine was only a mm more than yours, and I'm not even sure I have started perimenopause, so this is why I'm confused as to why they have referred me, I know they said I have a small fibroid and ademyosis, so I'm really confused, I have read lots of women on this site that have had a lot worse and plus I'm not even bleeding now, also clkd, when I say I have no interest in my grandson what I meant was, I'm scared to become to attached, he's only 10 weeks and I love him so much, also my daughter she also has health anxiety so she understands how I feel, I look after him all the time, it's just since he was born, a week later was when the whole bleeding issues started, I've stressed myself out so much it has ruined what should be the best time of my life, anyway I'm sorry for going on, thank you herbiexxxx