I have suffered mental illness from the age of 13, I've been on Prozac for 20 years, I've had numerous breakdowns, I've struggled on and off for years, I've had good times in between, but every few years I have a relapse, I suffer with health anxiety, ocd, and I've also had depression, so to be told I'm selfish is really hurtful, I've bought my girls up to be caring, loving, hard working, my eldest daughter is now a mum to a beautiful baby boy and she is a fantastic mum, I have alway protected my girls as much as I could and kept them safe and thankfully so far it's worked, I'm not ashamed of being over protective, I've let them lead there own lives, even though it's been hard, but I've never stopped them doing anything, unlike my mum I was never allowed to go anywhere, but I still love and respect my mum and do not hold any grudges, she is a great mum and we are very close, so as you can see when people comment about things the do not know about, it's really hurtful.