I'm sure she has never had hot flushes or nights sweats, neither have I, but that is the thin end of a very big wedge.
She is being complacent and once again, this demonstrates just how little most women know about the effects of oestrogen deprivation and the long term effects on health. My mother didn't have hot flushes either but she has been plagued with insomnia and bladder problems for over 35 years and still refuses to believe it is hormone related even though it started at menopause. She also developed high blood pressure a few years after her periods stopped, has curvature of the spine and had two hip replacements.
My point is a lot of women simply don't know that their long term health problems are caused by oestrogen deprivation. I am so pleased that my thermostat tanked otherwise I might too have been lulled into a false sense of security and not started using HRT.
HRT is not just about relieving menopause symptoms, it is a preventive medicine.
I'm afraid a lot of women are menopause deniers, my sister is one of them and refuses to talk about it. I think part of the problem is that a lot of women are still scared of HRT and think there is nothing they can do about menopause symptoms so self preservation kicks in and they pretend they don't exist.
I think it is dreadful that so many women suffer horrendous symptoms in silence when all their problems could so easily be fixed with a dose of oestrogen.