I can empathise with you Jbee, anxiety was my worst meno symptom, I felt I was going crazy, total irrational thoughts, feelings of paranoia that people didn't like me and were talking about me, feeling detached from reality, feeling like life wasn't worth living, that I was just an inconvenience to those that love me... it's just horrible.
But HRT changed all that, and very quickly too, within a week I felt a little positiveness return, although took longer to feel I had more good days than bad.....but I remember crying at feeling better and how I had allowed my fears of HRT to prevent me from feeling better, and how I had denied myself years of feeling better....I somehow felt a failure for succumbing to HRT.....and still struggle in my head with using it, even though it has helped me so much.
I too have severe VA, and bladder/urgency issues, but not UTI thank goodness, I feel for you on that one.
I had a course of Mona Lisa laser treatment, one treatment every 4 weeks, I needed 4 in total, and it took time even after that to resume some manageable comfort... bladder/urgency, still have good and bad days, I take vesicare to ‘help' but not sure it does much, apart from gives me a dry.
throat! ...my godsend has been the estring for vaginal oestrogen, and I use emu oil morning and night to external area, and feel so much better.
HRT should be the go to treatment for anxiety and depression in menopausal women.
Hope this helps Jbee, and that you soon feel a little better every day xx
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