Hi and welcome to MM kinola67
It is very normal to be going through menopause at your age and the symptoms can be a shock. We all experience the menopause differently and through the peri meno stage symptoms can fluctuate greatly for some years.
Regarding the pain you are getting; it is probably a good idea to get this checked to find out to see if the pain is from an ovarian cyst. The pain could be something else so a scan is probably a good idea before any more hormonal treatment. I don't know whether using HRT, which means adding oestrogen, will aggravate any cysts you may have but the fluctuating hormones of the peri meno stage can cause erratic bleeding, period cramps, headaches etc. Either ask for another appointment at the meno clinic or see your GP for a referral to a gynaecologist.
It's good to get clued up on the menopause so you understand what is going on and also find out about your options regarding HRT if you should decide you want to try it.
Here is an article that explains the peri menopause stage really well:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/magazine/pdf/Article%20-%20Perils%20of%20the%20Perimenopause.pdfIf you do experience cramps and erratic bleeding, then having a Mirena fitted can be a good option and you would then simply add oestrogen as pills, gel or patch to control flushes, night sweats etc.
Here is the section on you HRT options in peri menopause:
https://www.menopausematters.co.uk/perimeno.phpGet the pain checked out and let us know how you get on. DG x