Hi Snowbear
So sorry to hear about your problems with HRT and that it's not working for you. Btw re where you post - some of us in a hurry tend to look at this board first - in fact sometimes this is the only one I look at, but di look at the others now and again and especially for those with no responses - as I think do other members -so would have got to yours eventually - but great you've got a response now.
Right I would say DEFINITELY change HRT. This one clearly isn't working for you. First it's tablet HRT and not recommended for those with stomach/digestive problems as you have as it can make them worse and lead to nausea etc. As you say now you are taking stomach meds you may not be absorbing them anyway. TRANSDERMAL is the way to go (not Femoston).
Second you are taking continuous combined HRT and whilst this is a no-bleed type - the continuous progestogen can give rise to side effects some of which you mention. Also as it is testosterone derived, symptoms like hair loss may be more likely to occur. Not sure about the hives - but others have reported this - could be the fillers or could be the progestogen?
You don't say what dose estrogel you were using or what progestogen but from what you've said I would recommend patches - Estradot are very small and unless you are very sensitive you can avoid skin irritation by being very careful how you take them off and if you feel itching try not to scratch the area itself. Also being careful not to rub the skin to get rid of the marks where they have stuck. If you use Estradot then you would need a separate progestogen - the natural one is Utrogestan ( micronised progesterone). Look at the preparation on the top menu (pale green banner - Treatments, HRT preparations) and you will see what's available. Have a good look and a think before you see the specialist GP so you know what the options are, what you would like to try and why.
I am in my 60's and only tried continuous combined HRT once - won;t go into the boring story but it was when I tried low dose oestrogen (which didn't work). Any higher would have meant progesterone every day which I don't want. I use approx 50 mcg Estradot patch together with Utrogestan (used vaginally - off licence - GP is fine with this) every 6-8 weeks and get a small withdrawal bleed. I have no side effects ( well I feel a bit tired and headachey on the progesterone but not all the time but I can cope) and no crying or irritiability or anything like that - all is calm
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. Once you are post-menopausal your HRT (if right dose and right product for you) should keep you on an even keel compared to when you were fertile with hormones fluctuating wildly.
You need to watch your vitamin levels too if you are taking stomach meds as these type of meds (are they proton-pump inhibitors?) can inhibit absorption as you pointed out - but maybe your stomach problems will improve when you stop taking the tabs? I don't really know about LPR/GERD - is it a medical condition or more like an over-sensitive stomach that can be sorted out eventually with diet and indigestion tablets as an alternative? I have been prescribed meds like this in the past but didn't take them.....
Anyway hope this helps and let us know how you get on with the GP - do ask if you have any more questions
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