Hi hurdity thank you for replying.yes I had a histerectomy about 20 years ago still have ovaries but was never given any help or advice then at around 50 my then GP put me on HRT for a couple of years but when I moved house the new GP refused my repeat prescription and said best to come off them which I did but since then I've had so many health problems and no support from anywhere I decide to trust my own research and do what I felt comfortable with.i had a battle and a half to get the Premarin off new gp she was vile with me as always,I seriously don't know why she's a GP she obviously hates her job and people.it really is a hard slog but you have to keep positive and these help forums are fab for support I've had some of my blackest moments this last year and it's been a challenge to keep on top of things.i still have a long way to go but I won't give up I know there's help and remedies out there for ordinary people like you and I who actually live through this daily.Therse plenty of alternative remedies like marshmallow route for bladder inflammation and apple cider vinegar it can be ought in capsule form is another great natural healer,Dmannose is useful but mainly for ecoli uti,s but if you do bottle washing after passing poops then ecoli should be a thing of the past,I don't advocate wipes as they can cause dryness and vaginal irritation so good old soap and water after poo and unbleached toilet rolls available on Amazon are a godsend.keep researching there's help there.