I know what it is like not having a supportive husband when it comes to illness. Everything gets unrealistically played down. He asks how I am and I have a choice of pleasing him by smiling sweetly saying I'm fine or telling the truth and getting the rolling of the eyes. Yes, CLKD, changing locks have sprung to mind many times but I think I am too long in the tooth now to start again!
On a more positive note after decades of low moods and some anxiety I decided to approach the GP for help. She prescribed Prozac and counselling. I took 1 tab a day for a month with no side effects but no improvement either. I then was increased to 2 a day and almost immediately discovered a new wonderful enthusiasm for life. As Yammi mentioned, I went from existing to really living. I am off them just now, no side effects coming off either. I wd have no hesitation in asking for Prozac again if I needed them. By the way, I did not tell hubby I was taking the medication which was very empowering. I would recommend to anyone to give ADs a try.