I seem to have a host of different symptoms back in 2010 that I didn't attribute to peri menopause at first ....but I do know that I was pretty low because I felt so rubbish ! Then when I realised it could be peri I felt massively relieved that I wasn't seriously ill ! Then things seem to be ok for a while but bloody hell since August this year WHAM ! Everything ... bladder problems, aches and pains, night sweats, problems down below, low mood, anxiety ... the list is endless . And I'm still having periods at 53 !