Hello everyone
I've posted a number of times about the terrible morning anxiety (morning dreads) and panic I have been having on and off since starting peri abiut six years ago. Things are starting to get much, much worse and I genuinely fear for myself. I've realised that it come in cycles of around two to three months (but getting shorter) then it starts all over again. In the middle of the cycle is the worst most debilitating anxiety/depression I have ever felt. I call it The Madness. How original. The Madness lasts around three weeks.
It starts with carb, chocolate cravings but feeling mentally well. Then I start waking with full on cortisol rushes, crippling anxiety, nervous stomach, paralysing fear over nothing. I have nothing to be frightened or depressed about. This lasts up to three weeks. Then I slowly come out of it and the cycle starts all over again.
It's so hard to explain how this feels. I get the feeling my GP thinks I am a neurotic, over indulged, dried up old woman and I've stopped asking his advice. Im thinking about consulting someone privately but don't know whether I should see a gynocologist, endocrinologist, or psychiatrist. I'm posting below what I wrote in my meno diary to see if anyone can identify...
"Waking with severe anxiety again. Feels better as day goes on. I've started calling it TheM. For The Madness. I literally feel like I am going mad. Normal day to day life has me cradling my head in my hands and wanting to die, and if there is a real problem or stress I almost feel I will explode with it all. I Wake in the morning, snap wide awake and can feel something (adrenaline/cortisol?) starting...then moving up a gear, churning nervous stomach heart pounding, butterflies in stomach, wriggling legs and feet, mind fog, terrified of the day ahead. It's all I can do to get out of bed and get on with the day. I feel completely paralysed. Feel like I desperately want to be asleep again, to be unconscious, be unaware of life, to die. If I could just sit, rocking back and forth staring at the wall I would, but that wouldn't stop the awful fear in my mind. I can't bear it. I want to be unconscious, dead. Everything in life is a problem, even getting up, getting out of bed, is insurmountable, the end of the world. I fall out with my family. Life is too difficult. It has no meaning, no hope, no joy I have no future I just want to die. I'm just so sad all the time. Like a sad zombie. I can't remember the last time I felt normal or happy. I just feel permanently tired and depressed, everything is a supreme effort and I don't enjoy anything. "
When I am out of the Madness, I feel fine. I cope, I am normal, I'm fine. Apart from constantly worrying about the Madness, and when it will come back. I sound like a complete nutter.
Genuinely, if there is anyone here who can help please advise.
thanks x