Hi All,
My name is Lucy, I'm 52 and have been on HRT for a year.
I went on it to help my hot flushes. I have MS and each flush was literally crippling me.
I started with Elleste Duo (1mg I think), and for the first month I can honestly say I felt better than I have for at least 10 years. I was like a new woman! I managed to sleep quite well, the flushes stopped and I had more energy. After that first month, though, it was all downhill. I was also quite shocked that my periods were as bad (heavy, painful) as ever.
Then the bad stuff really started... I had PTSD twenty years ago, but it had nothing on the anxiety I started having.
By March I was suicidal, went to the GP who gave me Diazepam. That worked on calming me down a bit, then the penny dropped and I realised that the anxiety was probably related to the HRT. I used to have severe PMS which contributed to the breakdown of my first marriage. I would turn into a monster once a month and my ex would look at me like I had 2 heads on my shoulders - which, of course, made me worse. The Prozac I was given for the PTSD stopped it in its tracks. The only other time my PMS was under control was when I used a triphasic Pill without a break - no period and no PMS. Wonderful times.
I went back to the GP and told her I thought the HRT was affecting me so she put me on FemSeven Sequi. This helped my anxiety and I started to calm down. It's also given me "normal" periods that don't chain me to the loo for a week for the first time in at least 15 years. However, I had difficulty keeping the patches on and was going through so many boxes, another GP switched me to Evorel Conti.
These patches stick like the proverbial brown stuff and I'm not averse to changing them twice a week (though my skin is itchy and I'm having red patches that at least show me where NOT to put the next patch. At least the patches don't stink like the F7S). I'm also still having fairly light periods. Yay!
BUT, I'm now back to having quite severe flushes and my arm is like a windscreen wiper in bed (duvet off/on...off/on - I'm sure I'm not the only one who gets this). Daytime is worse.
So, can anyone help me with a suggestion for my GP next week please? The flushes are killing me. Some people with MS have something called Uthoff's Syndrome which makes us sensitive to heat and temporarily very weak. By the time my strength returns, I'm having another flush and it's really getting me down.
Would it help if I said I think I'm sensitive to Progesterone(Sp?) - the second half of the month hormone - though I might be barking up the wrong tree. Apart from the PMS, I've had many miscarriages and each pregnancy was a nightmare of all-day sickness throughout. I literally could not lift my head off the bed without heading for the bathroom. I started my periods at 8, they've always been bang on 28 days, the Pill made no difference to my PMS (apart from the year I spent on Trinovum with no bleed breaks), and my periods have always been horribly heavy.
In an ideal world, I'd love to find the HRT that stops my flushes (the reason I'm taking it), without setting off PMS and anxiety. Periods, I can cope with I suppose. I would also like to avoid tablets if possible, as I already rattle!
So, any suggestions? All gratefully received as I'm totally out of my depth here. Oh, and I'm rural West Wales so if anyone knows of a meno clinic anywhere in Wales, I'd love the details as the last GP I saw (haven't seen the same one for 4 years - and I'm a regular at the surgery!) told me there were NO clinics in Wales and I wouldn't be eligible for any in England - that surely can't be right?
TIA, Lucy.