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Amandax

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Early menopause and angry!
« on: July 03, 2017, 04:42:15 PM »

Hi all.
I have just found this forum and this is my first post as I'm hoping someone here will be able to help, advise or tell me the same is happening /happened to them.

I was diagnosed with early menopause after trying to conceive  (and wasn't able to). I also had been having bad smears and biopsies for 5 years. Eventually I was told I needed a hysterectomy which I had last September. I was then put on patches  (I kept my ovaries). I started on 50 oestrogen patches and have gone up to 100.
Since my hysterectomy I have been feeling angry bitter and argumentative. My hubby says I've changed and says he thinks its down to hormones.
My gp says I'm on the highest patch available to me and the only other option is tablets which are not as 'safe'. She also suggested anti depressants but I don't feel depressed.
My question is, should I still be having hormonal moods if I'm on  "the highest patch available"???
Thank you for anyone able to advise. I'm feeling very lost on all this.
Amanda
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DaisyB

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Re: Early menopause and angry!
« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2017, 05:20:19 PM »

Amandax  :welcomemm:  you've had a rough time by the sounds of it! I know there are some very knowledgeable ladies in here who had had similar experience to you - i am sure they will be along soon to give you some good advice. In the mean time try not to be too disheartened - could you introduce yourself in the new members area? You might get more responses that way?
Welcome aboard - this forum has been invaluable to me in the last few months I am sure you will feel the same once you get involved.


Take care


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Amandax

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Re: Early menopause and angry!
« Reply #2 on: July 04, 2017, 12:57:22 PM »

Thank you Daisy. I hope I will find this a big help too.
I will head over to the newbies area and introduce myself. Thank you for your reply.
Amanda 
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CLKD

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Re: Early menopause and angry!
« Reply #3 on: July 04, 2017, 01:38:04 PM »

I think anger is normal if a person has been pushed into surgery ......... I think too someone has to grieve for what might have been.  If 1 then feels poorly then one wonders if the correct decision was made ?  :-\

I am sure that someone will be along with advice.  Have a look-see that the Daisy-web site too.
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Mary G

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Re: Early menopause and angry!
« Reply #4 on: July 04, 2017, 01:53:47 PM »

Amandax, I answered on your other thread. this is what I said:


Amandax, sorry to hear about your problems and not surprised you feel angry to be in this situation at such a young age, it must have come as a terrible shock.

First question, do you know how much oestrogen the 100mcg patch is delivering?  Have you had blood tests to check that it is working properly?  At your age, you probably need a high level of oestrogen to feel good, probably into the 700/800 pmol.

I didn't get on with patches at all and even the 100mcg didn't deliver anything like enough oestrogen - this was confirmed with blood tests and explained why I felt so half baked.  It didn't stick properly, left a nasty, itchy rash and I didn't like wearing a patch but that is a personal thing I suppose.

Why not try Oestrogel?  It is very easy to use and you simply rub it on your skin.  I found it worked immediately and I absorbed it very easily too.  It is far more flexible than patches too because you can quickly and easily adjust the to suit your needs.  To be honest, I feel completely back to how I was pre-menopause which is quite an achievement at the age of 56.  Obviously there is no guarantee you will be the same as me but is has to be worth a try.

HRT is a whole lot easier when you have had a hysterectomy because you don't usually need the dreaded progesterone which, in my opinion, is the Achilles heel of HRT.  However, you might need testosterone, have you discussed this with your specialist?

I hope that helps.



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