Love my husband soo much and he really is a wonderful man hes supported me through breast cancer 15 years ago now but I woulkd never have done it without him and weve had a lovely sex life all our married life until I started the menapause 5 years ago .....Im now so dry down below there is no chance at all of penetrative sex and I miss the contact we do other thigs and both enjoy them but theres nothing like the connection .We have talked about it and my husband says hes happy to carry on as we are because to him its not important because he loves me , but I feel like im losing all my feminity I just want what we had or as close as we can get x I cant have hrt for obvious reasons and ive tried all kinds of lubricants and ive also tried vagifem pesseries with creams but althiough some moisture returned it was still very hard going I know theres no magic wand but just wondered if theres something Ive not tried and if anyone has any yseful advice X
Nope vagifem is still the best but its not a cure. If your moist inside but haven't had regular lovey dovey your bound to be tight and that tightness causes pain
Plus even with vagifem most cant carry on as long as the movements can cause the walls to dry. So imo use it ok even if its just in out a few times then what ever rings hubbies bell
You will find it opens you up stretching you and each time gets more pain free.
For me with Atrophy its never been the same My hubbie said exactly what yours did.
But i pushed too hard he then started to have erectile problems he was scared to hurt me
Weve sorted that out hes ok now but hes aware he cant go too long. Marriage or long life relationships is more than sex its cuddles kisses hugs holding hands i love yous doing things together walks talking both looking good for each other whoopy doo is great
But love is far greater