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Annie0710

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Re: The Road Less Travelled
« Reply #270 on: May 23, 2017, 07:10:02 PM »

My older friend made friends with other women having a hysterectomy and stayed friends , they called it 'the womb-less club'

I met such a lovely lady when I had my hysterectomy, she celebrated her 80th birthday in there with us and she'd had a double mastectomy, she was forever dropping things and I'd get out of bed and run errands for her, I was poorly the first few days and had to stay longer than planned but we dressed up the ward skeleton and put the toilet pan on its head, that old lady said she'd had more fun in there than she'd had for years x
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Claireylou

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Re: The Road Less Travelled
« Reply #271 on: May 23, 2017, 07:12:03 PM »

Annie what a wonderful story  :)
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« Reply #272 on: May 23, 2017, 08:12:11 PM »

Dear Claireylou!

I'm wishing you the very best of luck for Friday - we'll be here for you before and after (and thinking of you during, and sending you so many positive vibes).

Tempest's Top Tips? Big pants!!!!! I kid you not! Go get yourself some full pants in one size bigger than you usually take, as you'll probably have 'swelly belly' after the surgery for a bit. And take your own supply of slimmer pads for any post op. spotting or bleeding (don't panic- there isn't a lot) as the NHS supplied pads are still atrociously hefty and bulky.

If you get any pain in your shoulder after surgery, again don't panic! This is trapped wind from the air they pump into the abdominal cavity during surgery - God knows why it gives you shoulder ache though! If you feel uncomfortable, ask for something for this. Nature will take it'a course to get rid of it though, so don't be afraid to 'let it go' - there will be others in the same boat.   ;)

Most of all, let others at home do everything for you when you get home and rest, rest, rest. And pamper yourself too!

Much love! xxxxx

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Claireylou

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« Reply #273 on: May 23, 2017, 08:17:35 PM »

Oh Tempest thank you so much for your kind and wise words, I really appreciate it  :)

Yep I've got my big pants all ready, my boys had a good laugh at them flapping around on the line  ;D

It's so lovely to think that people will be thinking of me during my op. Makes me feel less alone.

I've followed your journey for a long time and admire your courage and determination. I too wish you so much love and peace xxx
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Annie0710

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Re: The Road Less Travelled
« Reply #274 on: May 23, 2017, 09:06:11 PM »

And i couldn't poo ! I swear that hurt more than the op, so speak up sooner rather than later if you think you're going to be bunged up, once the poo meds kicked in all was calm again

we can be your virtual hospital visitors x
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« Reply #275 on: May 23, 2017, 09:18:41 PM »

You're very welcome, Claireylou! And thank you for your very kind words.

We most certainly can be your virtual visitors - great idea, Annie! Just remember though - no more than 3 at the bed at one time, and be sure to sanitize your hands with a glug of gin before hand (we don't have sanitizer, but we DO have a lot of gin. It's alcohol, right? So it'll do)! ;D

We also don't have grapes, but we can certainly do Toblerone if that's ok.  :) xxxxx
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Annie0710

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Re: The Road Less Travelled
« Reply #276 on: May 23, 2017, 09:38:32 PM »

ITs better if we drink the gin and then lick our fingers right ?
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Annie0710

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« Reply #277 on: May 23, 2017, 09:57:15 PM »

Tempest, how did it go at Drs ? Xx
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« Reply #278 on: May 23, 2017, 10:22:59 PM »

I managed to get Estrogel. One pump a day! For God's sake! Got told off for 'questioning my Specialist's authority' as I said I emphatically wouldn't be taking Utro. on its own. GP totally dismissed the call from my psychiatrist - I mentioned it and all he said was 'umm'. Hubby questioned why follow ups at meno. clinic are so infrequent as I'm having problems, and GP said 'well, the NHS isn't a bottomless pit you know'.

So yeah - it went well. >:( I was telling Diane about it when she phoned me tonight and frankly she was disgusted! It's about what I've come to expect from that practice. No DEXA result yet, so as soon as I have it, I'll be changing practice.

I'll be telling my psychiatrist all about this when I see him next Tuesday - I kinda give up now. xxxxx

P.S. That should say STRICTLY one pump of Estrogel per day. That's what I was told. He really didn't want to prescribe it at all......
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Annie0710

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« Reply #279 on: May 23, 2017, 10:49:02 PM »

Hmmmmm I don't like the way your gp treats you, not nice at all

I hope you get some relief with the gel, it'd be nice to see your levels come up so you can at least give T a go.  And hoping the DEXA results are good . 

Xx
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CLKD

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Re: The Road Less Travelled
« Reply #280 on: May 23, 2017, 10:58:51 PM »

In most threads, the word 'chocolate' soon becomes prominent  :D
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Claireylou

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« Reply #281 on: May 24, 2017, 05:47:04 AM »

Dear Tempest and Annie. I'd love to have you as my virtual visitors. You can bring as much gin and chocolate as you'd like, two of my most favourite things  :)

Annie, I've already stocked up on lactulose just in case. Nothing worse than feeling bunged up  :o
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Annie0710

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« Reply #282 on: May 24, 2017, 06:32:17 AM »

And just think on average you'll be 2lb lighter ! X
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Claireylou

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« Reply #283 on: May 24, 2017, 06:49:51 AM »

Now that's always a bonus xxx  ;D
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babyjane

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« Reply #284 on: May 24, 2017, 08:28:05 AM »

It's not just being bunged up.  I found that I couldn't give even a hint of a push at first so Lactulose is great as it is a stool softener, osmotic, not a pusher like Senna is.  All the very best.
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