Haha Mia C!!
Actually usually at menopause there is a thinning of all pubic/underarm hair only to be replaced by chin and lip hair!! The addition of testosterone to my HRT regime has changed this - very healthy growth in said areas including annoyingly bikini line which even encroaches around the edges of my summer v short shorts so have to remember to keep an eye on it - oh and wear glasses! It's scary what I miss when I don't!
Ah I see about the 80/20. I agree one should do the indulgence thing. I'm probably 95/5 most of the time - but when we go on holiday ( like this year to Spain) it's probably 50/50 for the whole time away and also when going out for meals with family - I go for all the indulgent stuff, and wine and puddings! I can only do this by being strict at home normally (but always have wine/gin at weekends!). Sometimes fish and chips by the sea
Maybe I'm not 95/5 at all now I think about it (but yes when I'm at home!)
Hurdity x