hello green- sounds that you've a lot on your plate including the health anxiety ( which seems to be pretty normal for a lot of us)
Have you considered trying a course of CBT? You can get it on the NHS so maybe speak to your doc about it.
Also, give the AD's a try- they may work a treat for you but maybe it's time to also consider HRT? This also might help alleviate some of your horrible symptoms? It's not a magic bullet ( neither are ADs ) so trial and error and time is needed. in the meantime, try using the mind space app and push for cbt if you can- I really think it would help you cope with the negative thoughts. I know it's hard but also try not to worry about your job. The most important thing is YOU- getting better. The job thing is out of your control. All you can do is your best when you're there. TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME.
I hope this doesn't come across as a lecture- we've all been there and are working our way through this stage as best we possibly can . You can get a lot of support on here so offload and please please try not to worry ( and I'm one of life's worriers ) because it is futile and doesn't do you any good at all. Take care and keep us updated x
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