Hi Annie
So glad you've had improvements with most of your symptoms x
As for your husband, do you have a good marriage? As in, is he reliable, steady, kind (if a bit boring)? If he is, then maybe you could talk to him about how you feel. I did read somewhere a while ago that some women revert to the pre adolescent aversion to sex when they hit this stage of life, particularly during peri. It generally does resolve with time and good hormonal management, maybe you might need some testosterone?
If he is not a reasonable man (ie, is quite selfish and demanding - my ex husband was, I'm now divorced 5 years), then maybe some marriage counselling might be in order?
Are you suffering from dryness at all? I know when I first hit this about 8 months ago, everything shrivelled and dried up overnight - it was so distressing, and the thought of being intimate made me want to vomit! Hormones helped me very much with that side of things thank goodness. I now use a pessary twice a week for maintenance.
Anyway, I hope you're going ok with it all x