Oh, you lovely ladies! Just seen your best wishes! DH and I went out for a meal, which was pleasant. DH is good person to be around when you are upset. He cares very deeply, but doesn't chase those what ifs and why thoughts that come into your brain. We talked to our son who is levelheaded too and was being kept busy with our lovely, very active granddaughter who is under the weather, so she's rather demanding as little ones tend to be when they feel like that. For our DIL, not so easy to be distracted.