Hi I was diagnosed perimenopausal about 6 months ago. I'm 53. Last period was about 8 months ago, but had been irregular, with severe night sweats and hot flushes. Initially assumed these were a side effect of Champix (prescription drug to help me give up smoking, which so far is successful). I stopped Champix (which affects nicotine receptors, so endocrine system) but the rest didn't stop. Started on Ellest duet 1mg (great for night and flushes but massive water retention), currently on Femoston 1/10mg. Sweats coming back or getting worse, and have added sore / swollen joints in hands and feet and really pretty severe depression in second half of the pack (the progestin part!). Currently trying to decide between oestrogen and progestesterone or considering a mirena coil. Haven't told the doctor this yet! Finding the information and experience on the forum very helpful - its a minefield!