My DD has been very fortunate to have our GS, who she loves absolutely and is enjoying being a Mum, but she has no wish to have any more children. She says that it's like a switch has gone off. So why is her decision not to have anymore children questioned? Either to her or to me. The temptation is to fend off people by listing the practical reasons ( finance, difficult pregnancy, traumatic labour) which are all valid, but as my daughter has said, she would find a way through all that if she wanted more children. Why does her choice need to be qualified? A suggestion was made that it wasn't fair to our GS not to have siblings and questioning whether she likes being a parent! Why is it anybody else's business? Why do others feel the need to be judgemental? I'm glad my DD doesn't take any nonsense.