I'm from the US, too, and as you probably know by now, we don't have good, informative women's-health web sites like those found in the UK. I did find one US menopause site several years ago (out of about less than a handful). While the writer had done her research and there was some useful info, the tone was mostly just "put a good face on it."
A few months ago I decided I needed to again look for some support through a web site or forum. I Googled "menopause," and found this site, which has been a great go-to on those days when I'm less than 100%.