Thanks Hurdity - really appreciate your thoughts. Yes, the gel seems to suit me (the Utro is tolerable at the moment and does seem to help me sleep). Like you, I'm just wondering if my own cycle is diminishing now. I will see what happens ...... perhaps I'll get a bleed soon. I had some feelings like PMT last week so thought I was going to get one, but not yet......
Perhaps this may mean I'm heading further towards meno? I can't really tell as I've not really had a break to see what my own cycle is doing. I did try to have a break a while back, but after a month I went back on the gel due to night waking etc.