Just a word or caution ladies - don't let your man take over too much. In my parents' case when Dad was working Mum did everything - maintenance around the house, budgeting, paying the bills, cooking, everything. All Dad did was put his pay packet on the table on Friday night and the mowing on the weekend.
When he retired he slowly started doing more around the house and we all thought this was great because he was being actively involved and not still leaving everything to Mum. He started doing the housework and cooking, all the banking and paying bills etc. Mum never drove a car so instead of her using buses, trains etc, she now became reliant on Dad to take her everywhere in the car.
Fast forward about 20 years and Dad became very ill and eventually died, but Mum had gotten so used to Dad doing so much that she had absolutely no idea how to even go to the bank to draw out her pension, and she was too scared to do her grocery shopping on her own. She didn't even know what medication to take and when to take it because Dad knew what she took and would put them out for her to take. She wasn't suffering any dementia or any ill health, she had just totally lost all independence. I had to end up taking over doing all the things that Dad used to do. So make sure you keep your independence as long as possible.