Hi Moodymaud
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from me too.
I put up with flushes and sweats for a while and also tried various remedies to try to control them. As my hormones went up and down my flushes came and went but eventually when my periods became very far apart they stayed for good so like many of us on here - I started HRT ( at age almost 54) and have never looked back. Now 63 and still on it....perhaps something to consider as you get further along the road to menopause.
Lifestyle measures can help some women in the meantime - stopping smoking, reducing weight, alcohol and caffeine can all help to minimise the worst effects of flushes for a while for some women in the early stages.
Hurdity x